Is there any skin like that on osu? Im talking about the column widht, note size and scroll speed https://youtu.be/kR-6__uRbOQ

Scroll speed isn't controlled by the skin. You can change that yourself on any map.

This one seems pretty close.

You should try looking through https://skins.osuck.net/skins/category/mania. You're more than likely to find something you like. If something is very close you can try editing the skin to fit your needs instead.